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2 years old!

2yearsI don’t know whether to cry or celebrate.  I guess I’ll be doing both.  I can’t believe my little Kumquat is two years old today.  It’s true when they say the days are long but the years are short.

Two years ago, we were blessed with this ball of cuteness.  Over the past 24 months, she has made me laugh, cry, and fall more and more in love every day.  She frustrates me.  She also makes me SO proud.  She gives the best hugs (only if she wants to) and has inherited the Chammy sense of humor.  She’s a little crazy but it makes her very entertaining.  She loves to sing, count, and make other people sing for her.  She definitely has a bossy side but such a sweet kindness toward her stuffed animals at the same time.  I’m hoping her stubborn streak will help her be successful in life but I also hope that she’ll learn to let things go when it matters.

IMG_2089Happy 2nd Birthday, KK.  No matter which name you choose when you grow up, you’ll always be Kumquat to us. Love you to pieces!!

head to toe

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I took a little time for myself today.  In the morning I got a haircut (chopped about 5 inches) and in the afternoon I got a pedicure.

Tiger Time

IMG_2271My day started slowly as I was trying to muster any energy I had left from being sleep-deprived from a month-long struggle with a toddler who won’t sleep through the night.  At 11:00, I got a text from Teresa to see if I was free for lunch today.  We met up at the deli at 12 and had a quiet little lunch at the deli and I got to hold little Henry while we ate.  Ah…it’s nice to snuggle with a little baby in the middle of the work day.  It really calms and energizes the soul at the same time.  Thanks, T.  I really needed that.  This is the selfie we took together while his mommy was getting her lunch.

Weekend Sunshine

IMG_1885Weekends are great and they’re even better when the sun is out like it was this past weekend.

IMG_1875On Saturday, we went to our favorite place, the Farmer’s Market.  For breakfast, we shared a red lox open-faced sandwich that had a thinly sliced Meyer lemon that was edible.  Yum.

IMG_1898After lunch at Il Cane Rosso (no photos of lunch today), I picked up two scoops of Secret Breakfast for Jes and I to eat on our walk home.

IMG_1903The kid fell asleep so we took advantage of the quiet time and spent the next two hours at Hi-Dive.

IMG_1920Three beers and two glasses of wine later (between the two of us), the kid woke up and we were on our way home finally.  Aaaah…what a fun morning.

 

the kindness of strangers

IMG_1841On Friday afternoon, I came home from work, packed up the kid and her stuff, and headed back out to Oakland for a little Happy Hour with co-workers.  When we transferred between Muni and BART, the escalator that does down to the train platform was out of service.  That meant we’d have to walk down two flights of stairs together with the stroller.  So, I packed everything up, folded the stroller, and took Kumquat by the hand.  We didn’t take more than 4 steps before a nice man behind me offered to take the stroller down for me.  It was so helpful because then I was able to pick up Kumquat and carry her down the stairs at a quicker pace.  I thanked the nice guy and we went our separate ways.

When our train arrived, it was packed with commuters heading out of the city.  I had Kumquat in one arm and the stroller in my other hand.  Once we squeezed our way in, I found a nice spot for us to stand, held the strap hanging from the bar above me, and straddled the stroller to keep it from tipping onto someone’s legs.  Before the train even moved, a nice lady got up and gave me her seat.  She was too far in the crowd for me to make it over there without plowing a few people over so I declined.  Then a lady behind me kindly said, “You should go and I’ll take the stroller over for you.”

Wow, people can be pretty nice sometimes.  Or I must have looked really pathetic.  Either way, we were snuggled safely in seat amongst the crowd of commuters heading under the bay and down 4 stops to Rockridge Station.  And thanks to some very nice strangers, we arrived safely and comfortably and made it to our destination without delay or injury.  We also had a nice time at Happy Hour but the ride into Oakland was the most memorable part of the evening.  Thank goodness the trains on the way back into the city were super empty.

Peace and Quiet

IMG_1192I came home at 5 today and didn’t have a moment to sit down until now – it’s 8:30.  I had to go to the store with a sick and impatient toddler, cook dinner with a needy and hungry toddler at my feet, then eat and serve dinner to a less-than-hungry toddler, and then bathe the stinky and sticky toddler.  So, I let her play to her heart’s content while I sat on the floor of the bathroom and enjoyed a big glass of wine.  By the time I was ready to get her out of the tub, her fingers and toes were wrinkled and her hair was almost dry.  If only I had a fancy bathroom with a comfy lounge chair in it.  If I did, my kid would be squeaky clean ALL THE TIME.